Beliefs getting in the way of meaningful connections?

How many of us are truly willing to look into our own minds and hearts to see our part in patterns that show up in our life?  It took me awhile to do this.  To take full ownership in how my past thoughts and feelings are impacting my NOW.

I had a client the other day, a beautiful Soul, who was troubled about a family relationship.  She is a gifted healer and truly cares about connection.

Her connection with her family was troubled.  She felt that she was an outsider, she felt betrayed and isolated.  Not feeling connected to her family, at odds with her sister.  Actually arguing often, in a power struggle over “who is right”.

I know this in myself.  That incredible need to “be right”.  I am learning and leaning into the fact of “I don’t know”.  Can you, can we sit in the middle of things and admit we truly don’t know what is highest and best at times?

As she finished her story I reflected back, with compassion, what I heard.  Could it be she had a belief in her, perhaps one of the Soul,  “not belonging” was part of the journey this life to look at and shift.

What if that deeply held belief was being shown to her in these family situations?  What if that is where Spirit was playing it out for you?  What if you begin to truly question that?  What if she could shift that to truly feeling she belongs no matter where she is?  Fact is, you are where you are because that is where you need to be to grow.

I suggested she send the energy of harmony and love ahead of her.  I believe our energy(thoughts and emotions) are what others are perceiving.  It is this what they are responding to.

So, she is trying it out.  Already noticed a different feel to the relationship with her sister;-)

So, next time you are in a situation, take a look at what you are transmitting.  Perhaps this is what that person, organization, relationship is responding to.